I’m not a complainer. Really, I’m not. However, from time to time there are just things that happen that get under my skin. I think that’s normal. I think it happens to most people. It’s nothing drama-causing; nothing earth-shattering, just minor annoyances I feel the need to vent about sometimes.
Back in January I compiled a list of my New Year’s Pet Peeves. Well, now it’s three months later and I’m thinking I may have a need for issuing quarterly installments of my gripes–you know, just like the occasional updates you get about your 401K plans or when your tax bills come due.
Please tell me that I’m not the only one that this happens to: You get into your car, hook up your iPod and press “shuffle” for some song variety–or perhaps, you’re at the gym and have your ear buds on and you prompt your pod to rearrange your tunes randomly. Depending on my mood, I can usually tell you the types of songs I don’t want to hear on a given day. Sometimes I prefer an upbeat selection or I really can live without the sappy songs. Yes, yes, I know you can make your own playlists for every mood of the hour, but I like to leave it up to chance to shuffle my 1446 songs so I can listen to ones I haven’t heard in a while.
Lo and behold, almost every time I have certain songs in mind that I don’t want to hear, no matter how many times I press “shuffle,” my iPod picks those songs or artists to play. It taunts me. Either that, or it’s possessed; I haven’t decided which. I picture it laughing at me mischievously knowing that it purposely picked the songs I would most likely not want to hear.
The best part is when my iPod is playing in the car and I’m groovin’ to a tune and the device will be taken over by in invisible presence and change its playlist mid-song. That’s special. And of course, what does it change to? A song I don’t want to hear. I may just wear out my fast forward button as this seems to happen too often. Murphy’s Law I guess. So possessed iPods playing the songs I’d rather not hear top the list of peeves for me this time around.
And how come on one of the first nice days of the year when you can open the windows to let fresh air in your house, that’s when the neighbors get a manure delivery or the people a half-mile away decide to burn their leaves and the putrid smell permeates your home. Try to escape it–you can’t! Somehow the stench seeps in through your now-closed windows and bolted doors, and you wind up gagging for the rest of the day, or are forced to drive anywhere but downwind.
While we’re on an environmental issue, let’s talk about paper conservation for a minute. I applaud companies like Starbucks for “going green” and not wanting to print unnecessary receipts for customers that don’t want them; but at least ask me if I would like one. Some of us do track our expenses, and since I can’t see the amount you just charged me nor am I that capable of adding up two lattes and some madelines plus tax in my head, and remembering that total for the rest of the day, I’d appreciate the chance to turn down the printed copy or place one in my pocket instead.
Then we have the other extreme: companies such as Bottle King that print out two copies of receipts–for me, and only me. I don’t have a clone shopping with me the last time I checked. One copy itemizes everything I bought down to a pack of gum, and then there’s a second receipt verifying that the total charged to my credit or debit card is the same as the one displayed on the first piece of paper. Really? What’s the point? I know it’s not for their record keeping purposes because the duplicate is going to me with the original. One copy is plenty for me, thank you very much. I say let’s stop with the doubles and save twice as many trees instead. Better yet, pass the paper to Starbucks–they could use your second roll of register tape for when I stop by.
Lisa
9:00 am on Friday, April 20, 2012
One of my biggest gripes about Hillsborough is when the freight train comes through town and *STOPS* during the morning *RUSH HOUR*. It literally stops half the town's morning commute and causes the biggest local commuting headaches this side of 206. Since all of us locals know to avoid 206 at all costs in the morning, navigating the back roads in town is essential if you want to have a prayer of getting anywhere without having to sit in bumper-to-bumper traffic for 30 minutes. I understand this is an issue with the Manville switch, but seriously, there MUST be something we can do to fix this...
Laura Madsen
9:28 am on Friday, April 20, 2012
I know exactly what you mean, Lisa! And it always happens when you're in a hurry. What about that one train (not sure how often it passes through town) - not the 5 minute one - but the 20 minute one that slowly chugs by.... I often seem to have the habit of approaching the tracks, just as that one starts to cross over the intersection. Sometimes it's taken so long to get going and be gone, I've turned my car off and gotten out to walk around and stretch my legs. But you said it - navigating the back roads is essential for anyone who lives here.
You reminded me of another "peeve" I have. I do remember to update my GPS software every few months in my car, but find it hysterical (and somewhat confusing, if not annoying) that when I drive through some of the newer developments around here it shows my car off-roading on farmland still, when I'm actually on one of the new roads. Yep, look on the ground, it's pavement I'm driving on.... and that there is a house, not a cow! LOL
Harold Levin
9:43 am on Friday, April 20, 2012
Here is one long time pet peeve,about our town: no one ever seems to get a ticket for double parking in a fire zone while sending their children into the local bagels stores, coffee shops, pizzerias, etc. What makes this more annoying is the fact there are usually plenty of accessible parking areas to pull into.
Laura Madsen
9:51 am on Friday, April 20, 2012
Interesting. I haven't noticed that. I'll have to be more observant.
Curt Carnes
2:46 pm on Friday, April 20, 2012
Hang On One Second There Harold
Did they have their emergency flashers on? I’ve always thought your emergency flashers trumped any No Parking Sign. ----- NOT! But it sure seems a lot of people think that!
The worst offender is the full size tractor trailer that delivers to StarBucks. He not only parks in the fire zone and very close to the corner, but he parks on the wrong side facing the wrong way, and he leaves his headlights on so when you pull into the parking lot from RT 206 you get blinded!........... BUT his flasher are on
I stopped one night (after legally parking) and ask him to at least shut off his lights, but we bumped into what is known as a communication problem. I spoke English and he spoke something else.
Steve
5:05 pm on Friday, April 20, 2012
Is the Fire Zone: No Stopping or No Standing or No Parking? If just No Parking then they can stand there, load and unload passengers and goods.
Laura Madsen
7:47 pm on Friday, April 20, 2012
Eh, whether it's no stopping, no standing, or no breathing - headlights shining in your eyes as you try to pull in the lot just isn't cool. That's a narrow juncture there, especially if you're coming around the corner from the Stop & Shop Plaza. There isn't much room for anyone, nevermind a tractor trailer.
Well, we all have our things that get us goin'.
Glad to see I'm not the only one that grumbles from time to time! :) Have a great weekend!
Curt Carnes
7:25 am on Saturday, April 21, 2012
Steve, a Fire Zone is a No Parking Zone. Parking is defined as -- “ The act or practice of temporarily leaving a vehicle or maneuvering a vehicle into a certain location.”
Furthermore township code defines the following 169-2, Parking Prohibited -- “Parking by any vehicles other than duly authorized police, emergency or fire-fighting vehicles and equipment or placement of any other obstruction is prohibited in any fire zone established under this chapter.”
Fire Zones are established for public safety, according to Hillsborough code Chapter 169- 1 -- “The purpose for the establishment of fire zones is to ensure that fire equipment and other emergency vehicles have unobstructed ingress and egress and fire-fighting and other emergency personnel have unobstructed access to property devoted to public use, areas where there exists public access to parking areas and buildings, persons, vehicles, fire hydrants and standpipes thereon in case of fire or other emergency.
FYI -- Parking in a Fire Zone as defined above is punishable in Hillsborough as a Class A violation. Meaning you could be fined up to $2,000, or imprisonment for a period not exceeding 90 days at the discretion of the Municipal Court.
Laura Madsen
7:34 am on Saturday, April 21, 2012
I love my blog posts. I learn so much! :)
slippersocks
11:07 pm on Friday, April 20, 2012
When drivers stop for School Buses when they don't have to. When driving on Triangle Road or Auten Road --You don't have to stop for buses loading or unloading that are on the opposite side if there is a median.
Laura Madsen
7:38 am on Saturday, April 21, 2012
See, now this is something else I never knew. But, you still gotta slow down:
"Stop for School Buses (N.J.S.A. 39:4-128.1)
A motorist must stop for a school bus with flashing red lights. State law requires motorists to stop at least 25 feet away if he/she is traveling on a two-lane road or on a multi-lane highway where lanes are only separated by lines or on a privately maintained road. When traveling on a dual-lane highway, a motorist should slow to 10 mph if on the other side of a safety island or raised median."
http://www.state.nj.us/mvc/manuals/chap_04_13.html
And the law varies by state, too.
Thanks for pointing this out, slippersocks. I was probably one of those drivers that got under your skin at one point! *insert embarrassed face here*
Steve
10:32 am on Saturday, April 21, 2012
I was also thought that you don't have to stop on the opposite side of the street when a bus is in front of a school. The reasoning is the kids should be entering and exiting the bus on the same side as the school and not across from it.
Curt Carnes
7:24 am on Sunday, April 22, 2012
I’m not entirely sure of what a “raised medium” is. I’ am, however, entirely sure the ticket for passing a stopped school us in the act of discharging or picking up children is a minimum $100 fine, five points on your license, and five insurance points!
Let’s assume you are traveling on Triangle road, and the medium is considered ‘raised.” There is a stopped school bus on the other side discharging children. The police are running radar a bit farther down the street in the direction you are traveling, and clock you “passing” that bus at 17MPH. My understanding is you could find yourself with a very costly ticket on your hands.
Hey, just saying!
Laura Madsen
8:23 am on Sunday, April 22, 2012
Fine aside, I always thought it was better to be safe than sorry driving (which is why I stopped, even when there was a median situation). Even though bus drivers are watching, kids can sometimes be unpredictable how they cross a street. A friend might catch their attention, or they may be in a hurry to get home and looking both ways becomes an afterthought. That said, I have no desire to back up traffic either....but it really doesn't take that long for kids to get off the bus.
centurion
8:43 am on Monday, April 23, 2012
A good rule of thumb to follow is that is there is a median that can be stepped over, like on Triangle Road(or as I like to call it, Triangle Raceway), you have to stop. If your in that much of a rush that stopping for school busses bothers you, give your self a few extra minutes. The life you save might just be a childs.
Laura Madsen
9:03 am on Monday, April 23, 2012
"Triangle Raceway" - good name for it. I'm wondering how many more years will go by before they put some kind of traffic light there so cars can make left hand turns safely out of the developments. Since the I first moved here 10 years ago it's gotten a lot busier along that road. Or maybe a traffic light isn't the answer - I'm not sure. But it's a dangerous road.
sammy
10:20 am on Monday, April 23, 2012
Divided highways = slow to TEN miles per hour. no need to come to a complete stop and remain there
slippersocks
11:26 pm on Friday, April 20, 2012
A store cashier gave me a foreign coin in my change. Be careful 'cause he didn't accept it back the next day 'cause it wasn't U.S. currency! hmm.
Laura Madsen
7:38 am on Saturday, April 21, 2012
That's happened to me before too.
Curt Carnes
7:36 am on Sunday, April 22, 2012
You folks should be happy, given the state of the US Dollar, that coin maybe worth more than its American counter part.
Laura Madsen
8:19 am on Sunday, April 22, 2012
It may be worth more, but if you could only spend it here! LOL :)
Curt Carnes
8:06 pm on Sunday, April 22, 2012
Actually, there are no laws on the books that say you can’t spend it here. In fact next time you are in NYC, look around and you’ll see shops that advertise they take the Euro, or other foreign forms of currency.
Trillions of standard consumer retail transactions are settled daily in the US using currency other than the US Dollar! Does that surprise you? Think about it the next time you pay for something with your credit or debit card, or for that matter when you use a coupon!
slippersocks
10:18 pm on Sunday, April 22, 2012
Thanks Curt, I will find those foreign coins in my junk drawer and start using them around town, maybe that one guy was just trying to be a stinker! I will let you know at the end of the week.
Curt Carnes
7:40 am on Monday, April 23, 2012
Good Luck
You might be better off sticking the coins in your pocket the next time you are going to Newark or Philly airport. Most if not all international airports have currency exchange services located in them.
Lisa
10:00 am on Monday, April 23, 2012
Re: School bus yielding: I'm paranoid about stopping for school buses -- I always figure that it's better to stop and not get ticketed than NOT to stop, and risk injuring a child or being ticketed.
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